何为感情?

今天在补完习的回家途中,有个人对我所了一番话,让我联想起很多件发身在我身旁的事。
他说,他看见了我的一个朋友最近和他的男朋友好像发生一些事。
他问我,他们的感情还好吗?是不是发生了设么事?问到哭了起来,好吓人。

这让我想起当两个人在一起就应该坦诚相对,而不应该互相隐瞒。
在一个感情世界了,双方应该互相体谅,而不是单方面地去依赖或是迁就另一方。
双方在一起的是心连心的爱情,两人要真心相爱才能在一起。
这才说为相爱而,互相爱,而不只是单方面盲目的付出爱。
双方的感情不是一个用钱能买回来的东西。
如果两人在一起是没用感情,而是靠着物质上的享受又何为真正的爱情呢?
如果另一方想要以物质来挽回或维持另一方的感情,谁知道他日金钱用光了,那感情还在吗?
或是他又找到了另一个比她还要好的他呢,那这段只是以物质来维持的感情就要说再见了。值得吗?

我又有一个朋友,刚刚和他的男朋友分手了。
这是一个它用了很多时间来做出的决定。
分手?对某些人来说,只不过是结束了一段感情,没设么大不了的。
可是对一些在一起了许久的人来说是种非常严重的事。
不是他们不会处理他们的感情事,而是不由他们控制。
一方单方面地为另一方默默的复出,那另一方又知道吗?
另一方,你有为付出的那一方想一想吗?
为设么他们要这么做?这是他们必然的吗?
你们已经不再是像往日了,一切都结束了。
那在默默的支持和付出,有人知道吗?有人会颁一个诺贝尔德奖给他吗?
没有,那为设么他要这么做呢?应为那份在一起感情。
几年的时间不是白流的,感情是建立在时间上面的。
所以一切都证明了,付出的那一方是不会放弃另一方的。
付出的那一方会永远的支持另一方,他只希望他所期待的那一方会回头看一看,当他在需要人支持的时候有人在他旁边支持他。
付出的一方不渴求设么,只渴求一切还好。
可是,别忘了人是有感情的动物。感情有起有落,他们也会有灰心的一刻,所以要把握时机。

好了,又想起了一个不信任男友的朋友。
他在好久以前,我的朋友暗恋了一个男生。
有一天他终于能跟那男的在一起了,那是多么的难以自信啊。
可是我的朋友却常常认为一切是一场迷幻,而不是真实的。
却因为自己的胡乱猜测,而迷信了他人的话,而搞得现在所造成的遗憾,那又何必呢?
有另一个不相信男朋友的朋友,
在爱情里,感情是有起有落的,感情淡些是难免的,何必为了一时的几句而伤感情呢?
我可以理解你的生气是因为在乎和爱她,可是他却说出了这种话,伤到了你的心。
可是想想他肯跟你说,是因为他还在乎你,他把问题说出来是想要和你一起分担,一起解决,因为他还爱你。
他不想让感情一直恶劣下去。
那你就应该和他互相分担,体谅他,重拾感情,而不是生气他。
又是一个不相信人的朋友,常常不相信另一方。
常常把另一方管得非常的严,就像橡皮筋一样,拉的远紧,拉到了尽头是会断的,
到时候橡皮筋还会弹到自己的手,伤道德还是自己。
你应该相信他所说的话,如果他是爱你,他是一定不会骗你的。
如果双方失去了那一点点的信任,就如丢了灵魂的人,
六神无主,留着人的躯壳又能怎样?

除了不相信还有不体谅,我还认识了一个对男朋友非常恶劣的人。
从不当男朋友当作一回事,对男友是恶劣到透了。
难道她就不爱她的男朋友吗?那为何这么做呢?
男方一方面对她好,她又不会珍惜。
两人的感情就像是一个平行的秤,一方过轻或过重将会失去平行线而铁到。
为何双方不付出同样的爱或以平行秤的方式去对待另一方?那该多完美。
难不怕男友一天忍不住离开她吗?
那将会是遗憾。那又何必呢?

如果你爱她/他,就告诉他/她;
如果你你觉得你所做的事是值得的,是对的,就勇往直前,永不放弃;
如果你觉得你是错的,就像他/她道歉;
如果你觉得你不满的,就告诉他/她;
如果你觉得感情少了,就赶快补救趁事情还没恶劣下去;
如果你觉得你应该做的就去做,不要让人生成为一个遗憾,因为遗憾的感觉不好受。

我要做博客

Well, i don't think most of you know whats that really mean, be patient, i'll explain. :)
‘我要做博客‘ = I WANT TO BE BLOGGER!!
It was a trend among my friends, so WE WANT TO BE 博客!!
First, follow the several rules, they may helps. :)


RULE #1; update your blog
RULE #2; bring along camera during hang out
RULE #3; take alot of pictures
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RULE #5; write something funny/weird/anything happen for the day
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Till then, bye readers.
& work hard, bloggers!!
xoxo

update?



I'm going to update my blog,

or else somebody gonna
kill me as well.

*laugh out loud*
But i'm still gonna say,
Life bored, online bored, blogging still
bored!

Why? why?
*shout*

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Alright, my update will be coming so-so-soon.
xoxo

years of friendship



Don't think everyone do that
,
but i do . . .
I do believe in
years of friendship,
so do you?

We love, we heart,
we trust, we cherish, we hug, we kiss,
we need, we like . . . . each other like nobody else.

There's a
connection between us, which is friendship.
So who
are they?

They're . . .


Winge
ez
-
vivian, jane, povy, sze sze -



Wingeez reunion ; 2oo8 & 2oo7 Spot the different.

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cute ? credit to vivian.


'o6 Hotel Stay


old pic ; can't stop laughing when i post it.
but its our best memory.



Dedicatedto'em ;


Jane ;
always the sweet one & straight-forward.

Though it is easy t
o know someone for 10 years,
but it could hard to know someo
ne as a best friends for such a long term.
Argument, disagreement for sometimes,

So? it doesn't mean anything.

We're s
till the best friends till the end of the world.
Same primary school for 6 years & same se
condary school for 2 years,
&& we're from 1P,2P & 3P ; the same class. =D

Meet up often, tuition together, hang out tog
ether.
Used to sleep over at each other's house, same to qian wen, jia tian
& etc.
But now, we ofte
n to do that to wingeez, especially sze sze's house. winks*

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Vivian, the leafy ;
the self-confident pretty girl.

Been together for
few years, not that long,
but
love the style, the way she talk, she act & everything. cool*
Same school, same class
, sit next to each other,
same tuition & etc.
meet up almost everyday.
Know
me very well, more than i do.
I think, she can read my mind. *laugh out loud*

The future lawyer & get-married-early-wife.
She loves Vic, the boyfriend. lovely yet sweet.


*

Jasmine, dream star ;
The day dreamer.
One year younger than me,
knew her since 6 years ago.
Last time we used to play, talk, dance together,
even now we still do that, but less. =/
She's the always busy & grounded gir
l,
due t
o the reason, PMR.
By the w
ay, work hard for it.
Miss you girl.



Memoryofthegallery ;


2oo6 *

Vivian_x ;




SSP gathering *


topshop *

Jane_x ;




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o2o42oo8 ; missing jane *

Sze sze_x ;



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where is vivian? *




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Wordsto'em ;

Jane,
everything will be fine, don't think too & don't forget, you're going to study your college w/ us, so don't simply change your plan. hmmm* We'll always be there for you.

Vivian,
i have no idea what to say, we talk almost everyday. dot. Hah.

Sze sze,
we miss you. We din't meet up for so long d, where have you been huh? miss me? miss us? When is our next wingeez reunion day? held it on this coming saturday okay? Hope to see you soon. =)


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Hearts Wingeez;
XOXO